Human relationships!!! It just amazes me. I conjecture that it follows a sinusoid . A peak and a trough characterise all relationships on the time scale. The trough may be gradual or precipitate soon.But why does this happen?Why does your best friend suddenly appear so cold after some years ? Though I havent found any conclusive evidence yet, I believe the rush of daily life takes such a heavy toll that relationshipships are the first to suffer. External factors may also result in a loss of faith .
But yes, the trough does not last long. Unless it is a permanent separation for some reason, the longingness resurfaces and usually its spring time again. A good analogy may be drawn from the seasons of the year,cyclical and always returning back.
It takes months to build relations, seconds for it to be destroyed.Perhaps people are too finicky and lash out at the slimmest chance of their interest getting harmed. A fall out of todays materialistic times for sure but what is amazing is the swiftness with which it hits you. As firing has become common parlance on the job street, can relationships be unaffected!nope, but thats the dope.Yr best friend of yesteryears suddenly bids you adieu for unexpained reasons.What do you do?Perhaps wait for the curve to turn .
Generally new relations crop up to fill the void.And life is the same again.Thats how I guess it is.The elixir of life ensures that you learn many things from your past relations but also go on to forge new ones.New relations provide a new perspective and beginning of a new relationship curve but the cycle is bound to follow. There is no escaping the cycle . As a marketeer would theorise, why not go for branding to escape this cyclical nature. Perhaps branding does not exist in the lexicon of relationships or may exist when the players are sufficiently mature to handle sudden whims and fancies.This by any means is not an easy thing to do, more so for our gennext people carrying "resignation letters in their pockets." literally.
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